I just love all these interesting topics lately.
OK, if two people meet and fall in love and within a month they get married, is that too soon?
I think it is. And just like my comment in the kids thread, I think it should be required that 2 people date and/or live together for at least 2-3 years first so that they can see each other with the walls down. In fact, of my friends, the best marriages are the ones where they dated and/or lived together for 4-5 years.
You all know how it is. When you first meet someone you have your best foot forward. It takes some real time and effort before you truly get to REALLY know the person your with. Even if you love each other, it may not be enough.
So, how soon is too soon in your opinion?
OK, if two people meet and fall in love and within a month they get married, is that too soon?
I think it is. And just like my comment in the kids thread, I think it should be required that 2 people date and/or live together for at least 2-3 years first so that they can see each other with the walls down. In fact, of my friends, the best marriages are the ones where they dated and/or lived together for 4-5 years.
You all know how it is. When you first meet someone you have your best foot forward. It takes some real time and effort before you truly get to REALLY know the person your with. Even if you love each other, it may not be enough.
So, how soon is too soon in your opinion?