I'm 44 - never been married. I would never sit at home on a weekend night, unless I wanted to. I have a lot of friends (some married - some not). I invite my friends and their husbands over for dinner and a hockey game. I go with my friends to sporting events or out to dinner. I will go see a movie or show one at my house and invite a bunch of people over. I am very involved in my church and am very busy with all kinds of events. I am not waiting around for a man to make me feel complete. At this age, I am not really looking for anybody. If I met the man of my dreams (and I mean he would have to be the man of my dreams) I would not be closed to a relationship with him, but I'm not going to sit around and wait till he shows up.