i am a little nervous that stella is not giving her kittens enough attention ...what is normal? she is now leaving them a lone...they are only a day and a half old, and slept next to me.....she did everything right for labor, and fed them all yesterday, but has since seemed to be a little removed from things, she will go if they cry.....how often should she be feeding them...i tried to move into a boxalso and shemoved them back so she still cares but what is about right for kitten car. also i put downa heating pad and i think it was a good idea for warmth but maybe that has sparked the independance , what do you all think?