Hello - I just found this site googling concerns about my new cat, please excuse me if this is an improper post! Four days ago I adopted a 2 year old cat, Winston, from a rescue that housed about 75 cats in a house. The cats roamed freely so he was used to being with others. I am a staff member who lives on campus at a University and can only have 1 cat, but I am worried Winston misses his friends.
I'm a first time cat owner and I know there is an adjustment period (I am trying to be patient!), but he lays under my bed all day, hiding. A few times a day, he will come out and sit next to me, purring non-stop and rubbing his body against my arms and legs. He kneeds his paws a lot - on me, on the carpet, on the tile floor. I try to move slowly and not make any noises that startle him. He's great during these times but his tail is almost always down and his ears are sideways about 50% of the time, even when he is purring and snuggling. Around 2-4am, he will roam the apartment crying so loudly. He rarely leaves my bedroom during the day and is usually very quiet, except during these times.
Every time I leave the house, he will go back to hiding and I need to woo him all over again to not hiss at me. Can he be forgetting who I am? How do I help him feel safer and more secure? I should note that the rescue found him on the streets at about 9 months old. They believe he was feral before then and were impressed with his domestication over the last year. I am assuming this makes the re-acclimation process a little harder for him?
Thank you for any and all help! I am very worried we are not going to be a great pair and I desperately want us to be!
I'm a first time cat owner and I know there is an adjustment period (I am trying to be patient!), but he lays under my bed all day, hiding. A few times a day, he will come out and sit next to me, purring non-stop and rubbing his body against my arms and legs. He kneeds his paws a lot - on me, on the carpet, on the tile floor. I try to move slowly and not make any noises that startle him. He's great during these times but his tail is almost always down and his ears are sideways about 50% of the time, even when he is purring and snuggling. Around 2-4am, he will roam the apartment crying so loudly. He rarely leaves my bedroom during the day and is usually very quiet, except during these times.
Every time I leave the house, he will go back to hiding and I need to woo him all over again to not hiss at me. Can he be forgetting who I am? How do I help him feel safer and more secure? I should note that the rescue found him on the streets at about 9 months old. They believe he was feral before then and were impressed with his domestication over the last year. I am assuming this makes the re-acclimation process a little harder for him?
Thank you for any and all help! I am very worried we are not going to be a great pair and I desperately want us to be!