Hello everyone! Firstly this is a great forum that I have be lurking around for awhile. I have a question. I have two cats and about a month ago I accidently scared my male cat on 3 different occasions while he was going to the bathroom(in the litter box). A few days after he peed in my bed. Thats the only accident he has had, but I have noticed that he does not use the litter box when I am around(unless I am asleep). I have noticed that he sleeps more when I come home, and I think he is holding it instead of going to the bathroom because he is afraid. How can I help him? I feel really bad and want to fix the situation.