My last cat was very definitely a lap cat. After he passed away last year, I rescued a Maine Coon mix from a shelter. She's very sweet but just does not feel the need to sit in anyone's lap. In fact, she's usually in another part of the house altogether, all by herself. She eats, sleeps, poops and plays normally when she is in the same room with us. She will seek me out about once a week for a few minutes of attention, and that's it. I really miss a cat in my lap. Any suggestions? Thanks.