A lot of us have been where you are today, it is not easy and is almost unbearable. You have lots of support here, use us, we are here for you.Originally Posted by kipper3972
It's done
She has gone.
It was awful experience but I was there all the way through, whispering in her ear, telling her how much I loved her. Once she had passed away I kissed her softly on the cheek and said 'I will always love you.' I'm so upset. The worst day ever
Its a part of grieving and it will just take some time. Stay around here, where there are people who can understand your loss and help your through this deeply sad time.Originally Posted by kipper3972
I can't accept she is gone. I keep thinking she is going to stumble into the room any second.
You are a girl after my own heart!!!! Simply awesome!!!! You said everything!!!I am standing giving you a hand, you are tooo cool!!!!!Originally Posted by Tarasgirl06
My deepest condolences and empathy go out to you at this sad time. I have been where you are now more times than I want to think about; it is always the hardest thing in the world to have to accept, but when you think of HER before yourself, which is what you are doing, and do what is best for your beloved little girl, it will ease the pain somewhat.
The other posters have said all the things I would say, very well, and of course all of our hearts go out to you and Kipper (who will be free of pain! and waiting for you over the Rainbow Bridge...).
Personally, I always do three things at these times: I make a memory book of photos and words, so that I will always have that to remember my loved one by, and I can share it with others who loved them or who are interested. I plant a plant above the resting place, for a living memorial. Roses are favorites, but I've also planted jasmines, as well as trees. And finally, I adopt another deserving cat. Not to "replace" a unique and beloved cat, as that would never be possible anyway; but as all of my cats are rescues, and my life is dedicated to cat rescue, humane education, and all related, I am a firm believer in giving another needy cat a chance, saving another precious life! and giving love to another -- I know that my cats would want it that way, too.
You and Kipper are in all of our prayers, I know. If you can be there with her during her transition, it will make her passage much calmer and easier. And you will look back knowing that you did the best for her.