If you feel that you and your ex cannot keep this baby, there are other alternatives to abortion. There are many people out there, whom I'm sure would give anything to adopt the child. I just think there are other answers to this than abortion.
How sad that he decided to leave after the two of you decided to have a child!Originally posted by PurrfectCatlove
15 years ago I was with a man together and our relationship starting to go bad .So to make it short, we made a decission to have a baby together . Well , I was 5 month pregnant when he said that it would be better to move out . So I was thinking abortion in Holland (german word for Dutch ?) , they did it all the way till the nine month of pregnantcy . How ever I was not able to do it and carry out . I had my son and there was no love in the beginning for him . I was death inside , no feelings nothing . I meet my husband 1 year later and lernt to love my child . Today my son is my joy and pride and happy that I made the right decission 15 years ago . I also need to say that to this day I don't use any protection for having sex . And I have only this one child , never got pregnant again . I just had to share with you Kate , and with all in here . My prayers and my love to you Kate
OMG that is sickOriginally posted by PurrfectCatlove
thank you Mom of 10 Cats for your kind words . Tybalt in Dutch they do perform up to nine month , maybe they have change the law now I don't know . But at nine month you would have to perform a normal birth with labor and when the baby come out they kill it . Now is'n that sick ? .