My grandparents just moved into a new house where they will be living with their daughter and son-in-law and their three pets (two cats and a large dog), plus an obnoxiously loud child. The three cats that my grandparents have are familiar with the other two cats as they've lived together before, but they don't like them.
The three cats, however, have not lived with a large dog before. They've only lived with a very small dog that's smaller than them. They've seen this particular dog before, but they've not lived or interacted with it.
I suggested that they keep the three cats in their bedroom for at least a couple of days or until they're interested in venturing out of the bedroom. I also suggested that they not introduce or even allow the dog to be seen by the cats until the cats have explored and feel comfortable in the rest of the house. That could be two weeks or so.
Yet, here it is on these cats' second day and already the daughter is trying to introduce the dog to the cats in the bedroom. I got upset and said it's too soon and then an argument broke out and the daughter (my aunt) is a bossy know-it-all who says it's fine. My grandparents are more inclined to listen to me, but at the same time, they have trouble saying NO to their daughter as they don't like conflict.
I'm certain I'm right about this introduction stuff, at least about the taking it slow parts. Is there anything I can do or print out for them to prove they're moving too fast for the cats? I should point out that the cats are between 10-15 years old and one has stage 2 to 3 CRF and another has Idiopathic Chylothorax, the third one is super skittish. Any suggestions? Normally, I would mind my own business, but I think it's better for the cats to do things properly. I think it's less stressful and they will get along better with the dog if the introduction process is done slowly. Since I'm the one that often takes the cats to the vet and is involved with their health decisions, I feel like I should be involved in this.
The three cats, however, have not lived with a large dog before. They've only lived with a very small dog that's smaller than them. They've seen this particular dog before, but they've not lived or interacted with it.
I suggested that they keep the three cats in their bedroom for at least a couple of days or until they're interested in venturing out of the bedroom. I also suggested that they not introduce or even allow the dog to be seen by the cats until the cats have explored and feel comfortable in the rest of the house. That could be two weeks or so.
Yet, here it is on these cats' second day and already the daughter is trying to introduce the dog to the cats in the bedroom. I got upset and said it's too soon and then an argument broke out and the daughter (my aunt) is a bossy know-it-all who says it's fine. My grandparents are more inclined to listen to me, but at the same time, they have trouble saying NO to their daughter as they don't like conflict.
I'm certain I'm right about this introduction stuff, at least about the taking it slow parts. Is there anything I can do or print out for them to prove they're moving too fast for the cats? I should point out that the cats are between 10-15 years old and one has stage 2 to 3 CRF and another has Idiopathic Chylothorax, the third one is super skittish. Any suggestions? Normally, I would mind my own business, but I think it's better for the cats to do things properly. I think it's less stressful and they will get along better with the dog if the introduction process is done slowly. Since I'm the one that often takes the cats to the vet and is involved with their health decisions, I feel like I should be involved in this.