yes well I now jealousy is a bad thing lol in our world.. but have never discussed it when it come to "cats" (animals) and I have seen in my Sicke that he have been a bit silly, not in a bad way, but shows more interests in me when another cat comes around.
We have neighbours cats coming in for a visit, he is fine with that, he even share his food and litter tray with them if so.. (I am not letting in that way, but we have a semi-detached house and I always have my side window open for him to be able to come in when he wants to when have been out for a while.
So he has not issue with cats in that way.. but when they coming near me he gets really "nosy" and I see his face changes, his eyes dilate and get very focus toward the cat.
Now... every night, Tjejen has been sleeping between or around me and my man
and as soon as Sicke jumps up, she hiss and charge him off, he do not take up on a fight, he hate fights so he do sometimes stand his ground and they sniff on each other, but thats it... she do not want share, and neither does he
He has never changed when it comes to sharing... is this something that will change.. I feel really guilty as he is not aloud for her to come up in the bed for her... and i feel for him.. he used to sleep by the foot end.
So now.. what do I do.. send her down and no one sleeps in our bed to be fair...?? not sure what to do as he doesn't dare to come up and be with us and thats hurting me
this is how it looks
and then she shows him off by hissing at him.. =/
We have neighbours cats coming in for a visit, he is fine with that, he even share his food and litter tray with them if so.. (I am not letting in that way, but we have a semi-detached house and I always have my side window open for him to be able to come in when he wants to when have been out for a while.
So he has not issue with cats in that way.. but when they coming near me he gets really "nosy" and I see his face changes, his eyes dilate and get very focus toward the cat.
Now... every night, Tjejen has been sleeping between or around me and my man
He has never changed when it comes to sharing... is this something that will change.. I feel really guilty as he is not aloud for her to come up in the bed for her... and i feel for him.. he used to sleep by the foot end.
So now.. what do I do.. send her down and no one sleeps in our bed to be fair...?? not sure what to do as he doesn't dare to come up and be with us and thats hurting me
this is how it looks
and then she shows him off by hissing at him.. =/