Hi guys and gals.
I just have a quick - opinion type question for you and I won't make the thread back story too long.
1. my DH does not have a lot of self-confidence
2. his relationship previous to this one was riddled with infidelity and lieing (the girl)
3. we began our loving relationship a bit rocky because of his low self-confidence coming out of his other relationship (2 years earlier)
4. we moved in and all was great
5. i met up with some online friends of 3 years to meet john williams; i had originally bought tickets etc. for my boyfriend (DH) to go but he couldn't so i took a girlfriend. the online friends were all men. . . he was nervous but ended up getting over it
6. we got married
7. i have a student teacher who is male
8. i was out once this week for illness and 2 times i had to take my babies to the vet which left me with the choice of reviewing the week with him and planning for next week after school.
9. i couldn't meet with the teacher until 9.20 - we met at borders and i was home at 10:05. I had asked DH to go with me - but he had a long day and declined.
= DH kind of upset.
How should I handle this nicely and productively? I have nightmares when ever we 'fight'. I don't want to blow it out of proportion but I need for my hubby to know that I had to meet with this teacher so I could not feel guilty this whole weekend. I also want him to know that I love him - and I'd like for him to try to 'chill' with the jealousy bit.
I just have a quick - opinion type question for you and I won't make the thread back story too long.
1. my DH does not have a lot of self-confidence
2. his relationship previous to this one was riddled with infidelity and lieing (the girl)
3. we began our loving relationship a bit rocky because of his low self-confidence coming out of his other relationship (2 years earlier)
4. we moved in and all was great
5. i met up with some online friends of 3 years to meet john williams; i had originally bought tickets etc. for my boyfriend (DH) to go but he couldn't so i took a girlfriend. the online friends were all men. . . he was nervous but ended up getting over it
6. we got married
7. i have a student teacher who is male
8. i was out once this week for illness and 2 times i had to take my babies to the vet which left me with the choice of reviewing the week with him and planning for next week after school.
9. i couldn't meet with the teacher until 9.20 - we met at borders and i was home at 10:05. I had asked DH to go with me - but he had a long day and declined.
= DH kind of upset.
How should I handle this nicely and productively? I have nightmares when ever we 'fight'. I don't want to blow it out of proportion but I need for my hubby to know that I had to meet with this teacher so I could not feel guilty this whole weekend. I also want him to know that I love him - and I'd like for him to try to 'chill' with the jealousy bit.