I am leaving this house, and the boyfriend is staying. We have a child together, and have been together for 4 years. It's kind of like a divorce I suppose. Without the signing of papers.
It was very hard to do this. I sat him down yesterday, and let him know everything. That I dont love him like I should, and I dont feel that we should be together anymore. So, now, I am in the process of moving. This is so hard, but I know this has to be done. It really does suck, but I have got to stay strong.
There's really nothing good that I feel now, but I just pretend. Like I always do. I am not a mean person, at all. That's why it took me so long to tell him how I feel. But I had the balls, and it was a now or never type of thing.
I will be losing my Kipper, My black & white fat fluff in the process as well. Kipper is his cat, and Mushi is mine...So they will also be losing each other. I have pictures posted of them in the fur pictures. How are they going to re-act to that? Will they both be depressed?
I suppose I am just looking for some "be strong" vibes. Because it's so hard to do. Moving sucks too, everything does. He's being very civil about it though, which surprised me.
Also, just letting you all know, while this whole thing is happening, I wont be on here so much. I'm just hoping this all turns out ok.
It was very hard to do this. I sat him down yesterday, and let him know everything. That I dont love him like I should, and I dont feel that we should be together anymore. So, now, I am in the process of moving. This is so hard, but I know this has to be done. It really does suck, but I have got to stay strong.
There's really nothing good that I feel now, but I just pretend. Like I always do. I am not a mean person, at all. That's why it took me so long to tell him how I feel. But I had the balls, and it was a now or never type of thing.
I will be losing my Kipper, My black & white fat fluff in the process as well. Kipper is his cat, and Mushi is mine...So they will also be losing each other. I have pictures posted of them in the fur pictures. How are they going to re-act to that? Will they both be depressed?
I suppose I am just looking for some "be strong" vibes. Because it's so hard to do. Moving sucks too, everything does. He's being very civil about it though, which surprised me.
Also, just letting you all know, while this whole thing is happening, I wont be on here so much. I'm just hoping this all turns out ok.