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I just adopted two brother/sister kittens at 10 weeks old which I love alot already, so I have had them a month now. The girl is a total Mama's girl, sleeps with me and puts her little head on my chest...so adorable.
The boy, however, who was described as a lap cat doesn't want to sit on my lap, hardly will let me hold him--but when I do he does purr--and has turned his head when I have him all the time almost. He did this from the very first time I met him, too. Yes, I know cats often don't like to look into your eyes but he is extreme compared to the 4 other cats I have owned in the past.
He and his sister are very bonded and play together all the time, so no problem there at all. And both have gotten into my routine just great with no pooping or peeing outside their 2 boxes and they are pretty behaved in general.
So, what is wrong that this supposed lap cat (which means he was a lap cat with the foster mother) but won't look at me at all and doesn't want to be held by me except so rarely????
I also notice when I am cuddling his sister that he stays some feet away and often in his cat tree and sits there with his arms folded and just looks and looks at us.
I HAVE definitely made it a point to give one just so many pets and hugs as the other so there should be a lack of jealousy, but it's the girl who will jump on the brother those few rare times he will just sit and let me scratch behind his ears and then she tries to get a wrestling match going with him. I wonder if she is jealous?
Has anyone had a cat like this? And did the cat ever change and get more cuddly?
The boy, however, who was described as a lap cat doesn't want to sit on my lap, hardly will let me hold him--but when I do he does purr--and has turned his head when I have him all the time almost. He did this from the very first time I met him, too. Yes, I know cats often don't like to look into your eyes but he is extreme compared to the 4 other cats I have owned in the past.
He and his sister are very bonded and play together all the time, so no problem there at all. And both have gotten into my routine just great with no pooping or peeing outside their 2 boxes and they are pretty behaved in general.
So, what is wrong that this supposed lap cat (which means he was a lap cat with the foster mother) but won't look at me at all and doesn't want to be held by me except so rarely????
I also notice when I am cuddling his sister that he stays some feet away and often in his cat tree and sits there with his arms folded and just looks and looks at us.
I HAVE definitely made it a point to give one just so many pets and hugs as the other so there should be a lack of jealousy, but it's the girl who will jump on the brother those few rare times he will just sit and let me scratch behind his ears and then she tries to get a wrestling match going with him. I wonder if she is jealous?
Has anyone had a cat like this? And did the cat ever change and get more cuddly?