Hello everyone!
I just need some reassurance here. My life has been a mess since I lost my job back in August. I can't find a job, haven't worked in 3 months. I had to leave my apt and no one in my city would take me & my kitty in since they already had pets. Everyone was afraid that Houdini, my former street kitty, would harm their animals. I have a friend in Miami who offered a room for free and until I got on my feet.
So, I moved down to Miami at the beginning of October and Houdini did well on the drive down. We get to the friend's house and she was trying to get along with this woman's 2 indoor/outdoor cats and they were hissing and snarling at her all of the time. To make things worse, there are 2 feral cats who live outside (the friend feeds them) and they also do not like Houdini. Since my friend's cats are unfriendly to Houdini, my friend locks Houdini in my bedroom a couple of times during the day and we are both relegated to the room starting at 8 pm. Friend wants "quality time with the hubby" and hinted I should go to my room.
On Sunday, I was in the shower when they left the door open and Houdini escaped. The hubby ran after her and hurt his knee in the process. So, my friend got pissy with me and told me that we needed to leave in 3 weeks since family was coming for Thanksgiving. This put me in a bad spot since I have no job (but had 3 interviews this week!), nowhere to go and no money. Had to borrow money from my parents, who told me to leave this house asap. I moved into a hotel for a few days, but it was expensive. I am doing a airbnb rental now, but the woman has a small dog. Houdini is not liking this house and I have to move again.
Is she going to hate me for all of this constant moving? I will know in 1-2 weeks if I got one of these 3 jobs and then we can get a place, I hope.. But I just don't want to alienate my cat. Thanks
I just need some reassurance here. My life has been a mess since I lost my job back in August. I can't find a job, haven't worked in 3 months. I had to leave my apt and no one in my city would take me & my kitty in since they already had pets. Everyone was afraid that Houdini, my former street kitty, would harm their animals. I have a friend in Miami who offered a room for free and until I got on my feet.
So, I moved down to Miami at the beginning of October and Houdini did well on the drive down. We get to the friend's house and she was trying to get along with this woman's 2 indoor/outdoor cats and they were hissing and snarling at her all of the time. To make things worse, there are 2 feral cats who live outside (the friend feeds them) and they also do not like Houdini. Since my friend's cats are unfriendly to Houdini, my friend locks Houdini in my bedroom a couple of times during the day and we are both relegated to the room starting at 8 pm. Friend wants "quality time with the hubby" and hinted I should go to my room.
On Sunday, I was in the shower when they left the door open and Houdini escaped. The hubby ran after her and hurt his knee in the process. So, my friend got pissy with me and told me that we needed to leave in 3 weeks since family was coming for Thanksgiving. This put me in a bad spot since I have no job (but had 3 interviews this week!), nowhere to go and no money. Had to borrow money from my parents, who told me to leave this house asap. I moved into a hotel for a few days, but it was expensive. I am doing a airbnb rental now, but the woman has a small dog. Houdini is not liking this house and I have to move again.
Is she going to hate me for all of this constant moving? I will know in 1-2 weeks if I got one of these 3 jobs and then we can get a place, I hope.. But I just don't want to alienate my cat. Thanks
