Ive had them since they were young and they were raised normally: no early separation from the mom and they love each other. Never separated from each other either. They are one year old now. But recently the boy has started to play really rough, including when he plays alone. He does weird noises (a sort of “ka!”) to his toys, runs till he pants, gets really excited and crazy. He also sleeps a lot so it’s not like he’s crazy all day. But the worst part is that he seems super dominant towards his sister. A while back he started sniffing her butt pretty seriously and embarrassingly and sometimes had to sniff while she was using the litter box. I tried not to intervene out of discomfort but now he does it more and she seems really annoyed. He looks like he bites hard and he doesn’t stop when she hisses loudly and growls. He places himself on top of her and really pins her down. She lets herself fall from the cat tree if there is no escape and hides.
She doesn’t look that terrified because if I isolate the brother in my room she looks for him. But I don’t know what to do with his energy and lack of manners. The only thing that has changed was us moving to a smaller apartment but he started the rough playing before that. He’s also gotten a lot bigger than her over time so he might be hard to handle for her.
I hope this doesn’t keep getting worse. The sister is already pretty shy and tricky to get to eat, and I need to spend more and more time getting her out of her shell and play, purr, be herself.
Can anybody help me feel better? Thanks.
She doesn’t look that terrified because if I isolate the brother in my room she looks for him. But I don’t know what to do with his energy and lack of manners. The only thing that has changed was us moving to a smaller apartment but he started the rough playing before that. He’s also gotten a lot bigger than her over time so he might be hard to handle for her.
I hope this doesn’t keep getting worse. The sister is already pretty shy and tricky to get to eat, and I need to spend more and more time getting her out of her shell and play, purr, be herself.
Can anybody help me feel better? Thanks.