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im currently living at my sisters home, and help out with the bills. Her husband passed away about 4 months ago.
Living here can be pretty frustrating, she obsessively moves things around, even in my bedroom. She constantly obsesses about the cats things, and moves things around.
Its her home, and her right to not want animals in the house. I am doing everything i can to get a better paying job so i can get an apartment.
My sister has been trying to find a job, but shes been very picky about what she gets. Shes determined to only get a job that pays a certain amount, or is a city job. Shes mostly focusing on wanting to go back to school. people offer her help, and she says only by praying can she get a job.
She has a daughter living with her that is pregnant by a guy that makes very little money.
i want to help my sister, but i desperately need my space and independence. Im sick of living in other peoples houses, and putting up with the complaining about my cats.
they are my cats, and no one else needs to deal with them.
but i feel guilty at the thought of leaving. she knows i plan to eventually move. but it would ease my mind if she was working when i left.
its been hard dealing with my own grief and having to help my sister go through her own grief, we both have mood swings. i need my space, and peace of mind.
Living here can be pretty frustrating, she obsessively moves things around, even in my bedroom. She constantly obsesses about the cats things, and moves things around.
Its her home, and her right to not want animals in the house. I am doing everything i can to get a better paying job so i can get an apartment.
My sister has been trying to find a job, but shes been very picky about what she gets. Shes determined to only get a job that pays a certain amount, or is a city job. Shes mostly focusing on wanting to go back to school. people offer her help, and she says only by praying can she get a job.
She has a daughter living with her that is pregnant by a guy that makes very little money.
i want to help my sister, but i desperately need my space and independence. Im sick of living in other peoples houses, and putting up with the complaining about my cats.
they are my cats, and no one else needs to deal with them.
but i feel guilty at the thought of leaving. she knows i plan to eventually move. but it would ease my mind if she was working when i left.
its been hard dealing with my own grief and having to help my sister go through her own grief, we both have mood swings. i need my space, and peace of mind.
