Is it too soon....
I have been dating a guy for 6 weeks now. I have been struggling with myself because I have realized that I am in love with him! I have been in love before and hurt many times, and I have even been married. My dilemma is that I am scared to tell him I love him, for fear that he doesn't feel the same, or I'll mess up something I really want to have! He is wonderful! He cooks for me, (very well, I might add!) he has a daughter that he is a wonderful father to (and I mean I've never seen such a devoted and patient man! That includes my own father and step-fathers). He always includes me in things he does with his daughter, we went to a pumpkin farm the other day, trick or treating, stuff like that. He takes me out, never lets me pay for anything, he has a great and steady job, has his own house, he's CUTE (lol) always makes me feel comfortable and welcome in his home. Loves animals, this weekend we are doing a trial with my dogs over there, so when I sleep over, I don't have to ask the neighbor to let them out, and also cuz they miss me! He said they can come over any time. We have SOO much in common, and we get along splendidly. The sparks are all there! He continuously compliments me about everything, smart, pretty, etc....
So, what's the problem? I LOVE him but am afraid to tell him! I am planning on telling him this weekend, probably over a glass of wine or two! Lol! I was just wondering if any of you have felt this way, and what you did or would do about it? How should I tell him that won't sound too cheesy, and at the same time, not too needy, so he doesn't get freaked out? I don't entirely know if he will, I'm thinking too much about it! I know the choice is ultimately mine but I would like your opinions and stories too!
I have been dating a guy for 6 weeks now. I have been struggling with myself because I have realized that I am in love with him! I have been in love before and hurt many times, and I have even been married. My dilemma is that I am scared to tell him I love him, for fear that he doesn't feel the same, or I'll mess up something I really want to have! He is wonderful! He cooks for me, (very well, I might add!) he has a daughter that he is a wonderful father to (and I mean I've never seen such a devoted and patient man! That includes my own father and step-fathers). He always includes me in things he does with his daughter, we went to a pumpkin farm the other day, trick or treating, stuff like that. He takes me out, never lets me pay for anything, he has a great and steady job, has his own house, he's CUTE (lol) always makes me feel comfortable and welcome in his home. Loves animals, this weekend we are doing a trial with my dogs over there, so when I sleep over, I don't have to ask the neighbor to let them out, and also cuz they miss me! He said they can come over any time. We have SOO much in common, and we get along splendidly. The sparks are all there! He continuously compliments me about everything, smart, pretty, etc....
So, what's the problem? I LOVE him but am afraid to tell him! I am planning on telling him this weekend, probably over a glass of wine or two! Lol! I was just wondering if any of you have felt this way, and what you did or would do about it? How should I tell him that won't sound too cheesy, and at the same time, not too needy, so he doesn't get freaked out? I don't entirely know if he will, I'm thinking too much about it! I know the choice is ultimately mine but I would like your opinions and stories too!