Lola our resident cat it very clearly a cat that is bonded with my family. While she is not a cuddler and does not like to be carried, she follows us around the house, always sits near us and even sleeps with my Son nestled up to him when he lays down on the sofa. But she doesn’t want to be carried or won’t sit on our laps.
Then we got our new Kitten Taffy, now about 6 months. She started off very shy, but is now almost acting like a dog. She comes when called, constantly playing, she is the first to greet anyone when they get home, and sits with the family on our Movie nights. Despite all of this she also does not sit still when holding her, she only stays on my lap so long as I hold her. Once I let go she jumps off.
Our cats are clearly social with us and not shy or fearful, but we can’t get them to let us carry them.
How do cats become lap cats? Is it they just like that? Is it their nature? Or is it, as kittens make it a point to carry them? To get them accustomed to it so they become comfortable?
Then we got our new Kitten Taffy, now about 6 months. She started off very shy, but is now almost acting like a dog. She comes when called, constantly playing, she is the first to greet anyone when they get home, and sits with the family on our Movie nights. Despite all of this she also does not sit still when holding her, she only stays on my lap so long as I hold her. Once I let go she jumps off.
Our cats are clearly social with us and not shy or fearful, but we can’t get them to let us carry them.
How do cats become lap cats? Is it they just like that? Is it their nature? Or is it, as kittens make it a point to carry them? To get them accustomed to it so they become comfortable?