Nine days ago we finally started fostering (with intent to adopt) a very warmhearted, but fairly energetic 2 y.o. rescue Russian Blue male, 14 lbs, to our very sweet, gentle but spoiled 4 y.o. female orange tabby, which is smaller at about 8 lbs. We are doing all the standard recommended things i.e for the first week we kept them strictly in separate parts of our condo, separated by a closed door, while allowing them to sniff each others scents, and watching each other through the crack and occasionally playing or eating treats on opposite sides of the door from one another.
In the past two days we began some short supervised sessions with the two together in the newbies room- the new boy, who has been fostered before, is open and friendly, though perhaps a bit energetic and fast for our gentle but spoiled princess. She has reciprocated with an attitude, taking swipes at him and hissing occasionally, while he in turn sucked it up and seems to just want to be friendly. We thought things were improving a bit- eg they were sometimes sitting calmy next to one another in these supervised sessions - but this evening, after our tabby hissed and swiped at the newbie a few times, he for first time acted as the aggressor and walked up to her to swipe at her while she was hiding in a box.
No fur is flying or blood being drawn, but nonetheless we are wondering if we were pushing things too fast - does this mean we have allowed bad blood to be created and need to backpeddle and do damage control- eg more prolonged separatiin;; or are these little spats normal during these get acquainted sessions and we can just keep trying things at this pace (a few 5-10 minute sessions together each day)
Thanks for all opinions!
In the past two days we began some short supervised sessions with the two together in the newbies room- the new boy, who has been fostered before, is open and friendly, though perhaps a bit energetic and fast for our gentle but spoiled princess. She has reciprocated with an attitude, taking swipes at him and hissing occasionally, while he in turn sucked it up and seems to just want to be friendly. We thought things were improving a bit- eg they were sometimes sitting calmy next to one another in these supervised sessions - but this evening, after our tabby hissed and swiped at the newbie a few times, he for first time acted as the aggressor and walked up to her to swipe at her while she was hiding in a box.
No fur is flying or blood being drawn, but nonetheless we are wondering if we were pushing things too fast - does this mean we have allowed bad blood to be created and need to backpeddle and do damage control- eg more prolonged separatiin;; or are these little spats normal during these get acquainted sessions and we can just keep trying things at this pace (a few 5-10 minute sessions together each day)
Thanks for all opinions!
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