I totally agree with you! One of my very close friends had sUPER huge boobs and she finally got to have a breast reduction several yrs ago and shes so much happier! She used to always complain about her back hurting and she could never ever find a bra to fit her~now shes totally happy with them.Originally Posted by eupnea
As a well endowed girl (I wear an E cup) I would say you're nuts.
I would give anything to have a smaller chest. Guys sure do like talking to my boobs, but they don't often talk to me. This happens all the time.
I have back problems and I think they make me look fat because they are not proportional to the rest of my body. It is hard for me to exercise because they hurt when I do too much vigorous movement. It is hard to find clothes that fit me. And of course I get to look forward to them starting to go south of the border in a few years.
in my opinion, bigger is not always better, and it may bring more negative attention than anything.
What if someone is old and wrinkly in 10 - 15 years!Originally Posted by maverick_kitten
you've got to remember that its an on-going expense.
most people dont realise that the implants need to be replaced every 10-15 years.
can you afford this? can you be bothered to do this?
and without being too personal, what size are you now?
I'm glad to see a male take, on this issue. It would seem to me that any man, worth having, realizes that there is more to a woman than a couple of pounds of fatty tissue or (as the case may be) silicon. My mother is as flat as a board and Pops wouldn't trade her, for anyone.Originally Posted by Bikeman
Not worth it. Too many variables. And not everyone has success with the surgery or after some years have passed. Don't ask women who've had it done recently since they're still trying to justify the expense and are still riding the emotional high with personal pride.
Do ask those who had and lived with implants 20 or more years if it was all worth it. Gaining that perspective might help you to better decide.
Most men do like to look at larger breasts of course, but also most men are somewhat suspicious of women who've had (any) work done, wondering what else they might think is surgically necessary. Or we (men)wonder what the underlying emotional reason for having it done was. Read into this what you want to, but personally, I think it is vain (except for reconstructive purposes).
I haven't read here yet why you think the surgery is so necessary. I presume it is to gain size. But what will you really gain by this? Is it looks, personal pride, for a guy, to garner more looks? Are others going to think you are a better person for having this done? And more telling perhaps, what your friends say to each other behind your back once it is done? "Wow, she really is better off now since getting those implants" or "why in the world did she go and get boobies?"
You need to take some serious time thinking this through. Don't rush into this.
thats my point exactly. at some point in your life you are going to have to have them taken out for good if you dont want to keep getting new breasts every decade.Originally Posted by fwan
What if someone is old and wrinkly in 10 - 15 years!
By the way you may get ripples if you dont cream your breast every day. And i know that those creams are very expensive
Not to start a tanning bed debate but using them increases your risk of skin cancer and can lead to more wrinkles over time.Originally Posted by georgiagirl8
I'm going to start using a tanning bed next week & I put highlights in my hair.