Mary Anne, I have no suggestions but I want you to know that my thoughts are with you and Mike.
My Dad has had heart disease for a number of years, and although he's aware of his condition and is very proactive in treating it, sometimes I have to kick his butt to see his doctor. I don't like doing it, and I know he gets annoyed when I get on his case, but I'm sure he knows I do it because I love him. Sometimes, putting your foot down is what is needed. And as katl8e said, we are smarter than they are!
Good thoughts coming your way!
My Dad has had heart disease for a number of years, and although he's aware of his condition and is very proactive in treating it, sometimes I have to kick his butt to see his doctor. I don't like doing it, and I know he gets annoyed when I get on his case, but I'm sure he knows I do it because I love him. Sometimes, putting your foot down is what is needed. And as katl8e said, we are smarter than they are!
Good thoughts coming your way!