Hey everyone, belated Merry Christmas, and Happy New year!!! I have been so overly busy. My boss had her baby 6wks early, 11.18.08, she was born at 2lbs. She isnow 4lbs and getting to go home soon. With my boss gone, and the holiday season, we were so busy, and I was working more then 40hrs a week. Finally things have gotten back to normal. Business is back slower so we can get stuff done, and my boss is back.
Then... a note got left on my husband's brother's table, penned by my husband's brother for everyone to read. It had pieces to different family members, then the part about... not to, but about me. It pretty much said that I had to go. It said that I wasn't helping around the house. Sweeping and doing dishes every day that I didn't have to work 11 or more hours didn't count. Cleaning up their dog's crap, or their cat's pee didn't count. So it came down to my hubby's brother's wife leaving, or me. So... I am now going home back to Wyoming and going to be staying with my parents. I think what happened is that my niece and nephew was taking credit for the house work I was doing. I am not about to argue, or try to make them see any different since it would be saying that their kids are lying. I see no point in causing any problems. I will just go and be done with it.
His sister in law has never liked me anyway, from day one. She has always showered my hubby with gifts here and there, and I never got anything. That didn't bother me. On my hubby's birthday they gave him a computer, and took him out for a family dinner, on mine... Not even a 'happy birthday'. We invited everyone out to eat with us, and they all never said a word, so when we were getting ready to leave, they ignored us. So... my hubby and I had a nice dinner together. Christmas was great, besides the speaker falling on my head, and cutting my eyebrow open. Everyone was happy and in a great mood. But everything has been so UP and DOWN with her. One day she is happy and everything is great, the next she won't even look at me. It made no difference what I did.
So I was very hurt and sad. Down on myself for being such a horrible person. My hubby told me it wasn't my fault cuz she is jealous. I am thin, she is not, he says I am pretty, she isn't. He loves me and spoils me, she isn't spoiled. I think it is just that she would rather be the only woman in the house. I would have preferred to have been talked to like an adult, rather then read it in a note addressed to everyone in the house. But hey... I am getting to go home and see my cats again. And NyghtShade will be going with me.
I do appologize, I really am a more hapy person then I seem. It always seems when I make it to this forum things aren't going well for me. I do appologize for that. In general I am a positive person who would rather help others then be helped. I just wanted to stop in and ask for everyone to send some vibes to my Shadey. We are driving from Houma, Louisiana, to Denver, Colorado. Then I will be headed to Sheridan, Wyoming. I am worried about the trip in a car with her. She's a great cat, but that will be a bit stressful for her. I am also concerned for my husband, he is very sad that I am leaving. He thinks it is for the best though. He doesn't like seeing me treated this way. There are so many more instances where she was mean to me, but it isn't worth going over everything. Today is a new day, and I am leaving to go to Florida with my friend, then Saturday I will be back to pick up the rest of my stuff and my Shadey, and we will be headed to Denver.
Everyone be safe and happy.
Thank you for listening.
Then... a note got left on my husband's brother's table, penned by my husband's brother for everyone to read. It had pieces to different family members, then the part about... not to, but about me. It pretty much said that I had to go. It said that I wasn't helping around the house. Sweeping and doing dishes every day that I didn't have to work 11 or more hours didn't count. Cleaning up their dog's crap, or their cat's pee didn't count. So it came down to my hubby's brother's wife leaving, or me. So... I am now going home back to Wyoming and going to be staying with my parents. I think what happened is that my niece and nephew was taking credit for the house work I was doing. I am not about to argue, or try to make them see any different since it would be saying that their kids are lying. I see no point in causing any problems. I will just go and be done with it.
His sister in law has never liked me anyway, from day one. She has always showered my hubby with gifts here and there, and I never got anything. That didn't bother me. On my hubby's birthday they gave him a computer, and took him out for a family dinner, on mine... Not even a 'happy birthday'. We invited everyone out to eat with us, and they all never said a word, so when we were getting ready to leave, they ignored us. So... my hubby and I had a nice dinner together. Christmas was great, besides the speaker falling on my head, and cutting my eyebrow open. Everyone was happy and in a great mood. But everything has been so UP and DOWN with her. One day she is happy and everything is great, the next she won't even look at me. It made no difference what I did.
So I was very hurt and sad. Down on myself for being such a horrible person. My hubby told me it wasn't my fault cuz she is jealous. I am thin, she is not, he says I am pretty, she isn't. He loves me and spoils me, she isn't spoiled. I think it is just that she would rather be the only woman in the house. I would have preferred to have been talked to like an adult, rather then read it in a note addressed to everyone in the house. But hey... I am getting to go home and see my cats again. And NyghtShade will be going with me.
I do appologize, I really am a more hapy person then I seem. It always seems when I make it to this forum things aren't going well for me. I do appologize for that. In general I am a positive person who would rather help others then be helped. I just wanted to stop in and ask for everyone to send some vibes to my Shadey. We are driving from Houma, Louisiana, to Denver, Colorado. Then I will be headed to Sheridan, Wyoming. I am worried about the trip in a car with her. She's a great cat, but that will be a bit stressful for her. I am also concerned for my husband, he is very sad that I am leaving. He thinks it is for the best though. He doesn't like seeing me treated this way. There are so many more instances where she was mean to me, but it isn't worth going over everything. Today is a new day, and I am leaving to go to Florida with my friend, then Saturday I will be back to pick up the rest of my stuff and my Shadey, and we will be headed to Denver.
Everyone be safe and happy.