Alright it just seems as though everything always goes wrong for me! Nothing can go right! My cats have ringworm (Just Eek) the thread for that is
http://thecatsite.com/forums/showthread.php?t=155855
They also just got neutered and Eek had his head scraped at the same time!
Then to top everything off Im pretty sure Im raising the Spawn Of Satan!
My 2 Year Old either hates me, or is possessed by the devil recently! The past few days with him has been a nightmare. He doesn't listen to what I say (he's 2 I can't expect him to always listen) but then he gets mad at me and just whacks me a good one! He has hit me probably like 10 times in the past 4 days!
It all started Wednesday. Angel (my 5 y/o) was spending the night at my grandmas. So we were going to go out to dinner together. So Im getting the kids dressed for the cold wheather and I got Joseph ready and then go to get Jacob ready. He starts screaming at Me, NO WAY MOM! Every piece of clothing I put on him he ripped off, I went to put his socks and shoes on and he ripped his socks off. So I try to remain calm and put it back on him and then go for the shoes, he then grabs a shoe and belts me with it! By the time I finally got there we were a half hour late. So we went out to dinner and then I met them (angel and my gma) at her house. So I put them in the tub (she has a big enough tub for all 3 kids) and he starts screaming at me! NO WAY MOM!! NO WAY MOM! Im like whatever, I get him cleaned up and take him out. So its getting late and I decide I should get the boys home and put them to bed. I get Joseph in first, then go to put Jacob in his booster seat, he gets out and screams at me and I tell him that Ill put him in the other baby seat if he doesn't knock it off! (the other baby seat I have is for 2 year olds he just hates it) So he continues to scream and scream and scream. My grandma comes out of the house and says she would spank his butt if he were her child. I finally get angry about him not listening and put him in the baby seat. He screamed the whole way home! When I get home I go to take him in and he wanted out of the seat but would not get out of the van. At this point I have no patience so I take him out, change his diaper and put them both directly to bed. The next day it starts all over again, with him kicking me and yelling at me NO WAY MOM! I go to pick Angel up from school and he wouldn't sit in his seat again, so I tell him once again that he needs to be in his seat, seatbelted in. He freaks out. So I go and put him in the baby seat because he can't get out of that and he is kicking and screaming the whole time! I drop the girl that gets a ride home with me everyday off at her daycare and go home. I get Jacob unbuckled and get Joseph and Angel out and have the door open and am asking Jacob to come on, time to go in! He screams at me so I take the other two in and go back out to my garage and try to get him in. He wouldn't come for nothing. He took it so far as to bite me! So I go in (my garage door is shut, but the door to inside the house is open) and Im watching him, trying to talk him into coming in. It took 30 minutes to finally get him in the house. I just dont know what Im doing wrong here! I try spending extra time with him alone, and that doesn't work. Ive tried spanking him but Im not really a spanker so it doesn't faze him! Ive tried time outs! Im at my witts end! The worst part about everything is he is so darn mean to Joseph! He pushes him off of things, trips him, bites him, takes his toys away from him and is just down right nasty to him!! Does anyone have any advice?? I know its probably the terrible twos, but Angel never went through any of this!!
http://thecatsite.com/forums/showthread.php?t=155855
They also just got neutered and Eek had his head scraped at the same time!
Then to top everything off Im pretty sure Im raising the Spawn Of Satan!
My 2 Year Old either hates me, or is possessed by the devil recently! The past few days with him has been a nightmare. He doesn't listen to what I say (he's 2 I can't expect him to always listen) but then he gets mad at me and just whacks me a good one! He has hit me probably like 10 times in the past 4 days!
It all started Wednesday. Angel (my 5 y/o) was spending the night at my grandmas. So we were going to go out to dinner together. So Im getting the kids dressed for the cold wheather and I got Joseph ready and then go to get Jacob ready. He starts screaming at Me, NO WAY MOM! Every piece of clothing I put on him he ripped off, I went to put his socks and shoes on and he ripped his socks off. So I try to remain calm and put it back on him and then go for the shoes, he then grabs a shoe and belts me with it! By the time I finally got there we were a half hour late. So we went out to dinner and then I met them (angel and my gma) at her house. So I put them in the tub (she has a big enough tub for all 3 kids) and he starts screaming at me! NO WAY MOM!! NO WAY MOM! Im like whatever, I get him cleaned up and take him out. So its getting late and I decide I should get the boys home and put them to bed. I get Joseph in first, then go to put Jacob in his booster seat, he gets out and screams at me and I tell him that Ill put him in the other baby seat if he doesn't knock it off! (the other baby seat I have is for 2 year olds he just hates it) So he continues to scream and scream and scream. My grandma comes out of the house and says she would spank his butt if he were her child. I finally get angry about him not listening and put him in the baby seat. He screamed the whole way home! When I get home I go to take him in and he wanted out of the seat but would not get out of the van. At this point I have no patience so I take him out, change his diaper and put them both directly to bed. The next day it starts all over again, with him kicking me and yelling at me NO WAY MOM! I go to pick Angel up from school and he wouldn't sit in his seat again, so I tell him once again that he needs to be in his seat, seatbelted in. He freaks out. So I go and put him in the baby seat because he can't get out of that and he is kicking and screaming the whole time! I drop the girl that gets a ride home with me everyday off at her daycare and go home. I get Jacob unbuckled and get Joseph and Angel out and have the door open and am asking Jacob to come on, time to go in! He screams at me so I take the other two in and go back out to my garage and try to get him in. He wouldn't come for nothing. He took it so far as to bite me! So I go in (my garage door is shut, but the door to inside the house is open) and Im watching him, trying to talk him into coming in. It took 30 minutes to finally get him in the house. I just dont know what Im doing wrong here! I try spending extra time with him alone, and that doesn't work. Ive tried spanking him but Im not really a spanker so it doesn't faze him! Ive tried time outs! Im at my witts end! The worst part about everything is he is so darn mean to Joseph! He pushes him off of things, trips him, bites him, takes his toys away from him and is just down right nasty to him!! Does anyone have any advice?? I know its probably the terrible twos, but Angel never went through any of this!!