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Actually, the teachers know the kids in our school very well. It's a small district. There are the kids that hit, and the ones that hit back. BUT, even the kid who was defending themselves get suspended, and let me explain why.
When a bully is suspended for hitting another kid, the bully has friends, who are, most likely, bullies themselves. If the child who was just defending themselves is NOT suspended, they can and WILL be picked on for "Getting the other kid in trouble". My son had his nose shattered, and the boy who hit him was suspended. Now, my son was hospitalized, so he wasn't in school, but the kids friends KNEW he didn't get in trouble, even though he did PUSH the kid off of him (which is fighting back, according to the school). The bully was removed from my sons class permanently (don;t get me started on why the kid was IN his class in the first place) and the kids friends verbally abused my son when he did return to school. They knew better than to touch him, since he had a cast on his nose, and everyone watched him like he was made of china. But the verbal abuse was there. If he had gotten suspended, (so the kids knew it) it would have been better for him, socially.
It is for the safety of the victim that he is suspended along with the child that hit him first. My daughter was knocked down by an older girl several year back, when she got back up, she hit the girl that knocked her down. She had ISS for 2 days, while the other kid had OSS for 2 days. I chose, under the advice of the principal (love this guy) to remove her for the 2 days, and buy her ice cream on him. apparently, this older girl has a little "issue" and my daughter was the first kid that stood back up to her. I took his advice, and it seems this problem girl, has never gone near my daughter or any of her friends again.
It may not be fair, but children are notoriously not fair. Taking a game from a 6 year old is also not fair. What's supremely not fair, is that the law protects the little derelict and I can do nothing to him.
When a bully is suspended for hitting another kid, the bully has friends, who are, most likely, bullies themselves. If the child who was just defending themselves is NOT suspended, they can and WILL be picked on for "Getting the other kid in trouble". My son had his nose shattered, and the boy who hit him was suspended. Now, my son was hospitalized, so he wasn't in school, but the kids friends KNEW he didn't get in trouble, even though he did PUSH the kid off of him (which is fighting back, according to the school). The bully was removed from my sons class permanently (don;t get me started on why the kid was IN his class in the first place) and the kids friends verbally abused my son when he did return to school. They knew better than to touch him, since he had a cast on his nose, and everyone watched him like he was made of china. But the verbal abuse was there. If he had gotten suspended, (so the kids knew it) it would have been better for him, socially.
It is for the safety of the victim that he is suspended along with the child that hit him first. My daughter was knocked down by an older girl several year back, when she got back up, she hit the girl that knocked her down. She had ISS for 2 days, while the other kid had OSS for 2 days. I chose, under the advice of the principal (love this guy) to remove her for the 2 days, and buy her ice cream on him. apparently, this older girl has a little "issue" and my daughter was the first kid that stood back up to her. I took his advice, and it seems this problem girl, has never gone near my daughter or any of her friends again.
It may not be fair, but children are notoriously not fair. Taking a game from a 6 year old is also not fair. What's supremely not fair, is that the law protects the little derelict and I can do nothing to him.