we're so happy to welcome you to TCS. I'm sure you'll enjoy your stay with us - we're one great big family and you'll find loads of friends here. If I can help at all while you're finding your way around TCS just click on my username and send me a Personal Message - I'll do what I can to answer your questions
I'm so sorry to hear that you lost Diamond. Perhaps when you feel the time is right, you could post a tribute to you kitty in the Crossing the Bridge forum. It's a place where we remember those kitties who are no longer with us.