I know cats don't really hold grudges or hate you forever for scaring them, but I just feel so bad. I have to give Fenris ear medicine for a yeast infection and I tried to scruff him, but he's so good about dodging before I can get a good grip. I tried it three times and then he went under the bed. So I gave him his space and took a nap... When I woke up he was in the walk-in closet, so I closed the door and got him there. He's so gentle though, and if you annoy him or stress him out, he just runs. So he tried to do that a few times, and realized it didn't work because he had no where to go, and that's when the hissing/swatting started.
I finally did scruff him and was careful to pick him up by the feet, and after I applied the medicine, I let go and slowly pet him and scratched his cheek lightly a few times before opening the door. But he's been under the been ever since then like 3 hours ago.
I've only had him a month, and I'm scared this is going to make his safe home feel like it's unsafe now. I haven't tried to coax him out or anything but I'm just worried about this because I have to do this for another week.
Is he going to eventually realize I don't want to kill him? I feel so bad CORNERING him like that, he's never hissed or growled at me until today.
I finally did scruff him and was careful to pick him up by the feet, and after I applied the medicine, I let go and slowly pet him and scratched his cheek lightly a few times before opening the door. But he's been under the been ever since then like 3 hours ago.
Is he going to eventually realize I don't want to kill him? I feel so bad CORNERING him like that, he's never hissed or growled at me until today.