Its not in my nature to vent about personal issues like this but I need some advice about what to do!! Let me fill you all on the details..this is just CREEPY!!! A couple of months ago my sister called me to tell me that an ex (we're talking 10 years ago) had contacted her (going on her surname in the phone book) in hopes of finding me. He left a message and a number. I never called him. We broke up on good terms but he was a control freak and very insecure and I ceased all contact with him after the break up. He had tried to find me through friends after that but I never called. I guess he didn't take the hint. Since June he has left two messages on my sisters phone and the last time she answered. She told him I had got the messages and hung up. Yesterday she recieved 22 letters adressed to her C/O my name. Being that she lives far away from me I asked her to open a few and read. The guy addresses me as 'my love' and is totally obsessed and wants me to meet with him. Parts of the letters would sound sane if we were pen pals that had kept in touch (save the 'my love' stuff). He goes on to talk about our relationship in DETAIL and then normal stuff in his everyday life and then how he's doing really well now and that he thinks he could make me happy. He knows I'm married btw...which is even crazier...good heavens have some respect man!!! He's also a musician and left an address in one letter as to wear and when he will play next...he has written an album all about me which he intends to send to my sister...this guy is looney toons!!! I called the police and they said that my sister would have to call but she is afraid to make him angry as he knows where she lives. He has left no information about his address on the letters but left a number with my sister.
He writes to me as if I'm this sweet naive little girl (that I once was...lol) maybe if I call him back and act like a brute he'll change his mind about me???
Any advice here? Good heavens who needs this kind of drama??? I can't sleep I'm so annoyeeeedddd!!!!!
He writes to me as if I'm this sweet naive little girl (that I once was...lol) maybe if I call him back and act like a brute he'll change his mind about me???
Any advice here? Good heavens who needs this kind of drama??? I can't sleep I'm so annoyeeeedddd!!!!!