By my four year old niece she walked upto and told me I made her mad when I got onto her for being ugly earlier and then she slapped me in the face and then she ran and jumped in my dad's lap. And I ran after her and spanked her and I told her that she was not to slap adults and then I told her until she can behave she was not allowed in my bedroom and so then she stuck her toungue out and spit at me. What the heck is my sister teaching her? My sister used to kick my grandma in the shins and my grandma would take it because she was in dad's home and she didn't feel that she should punish a child when they were at their parents home. I am not going to tolerate a four year old slapping me in the face. What is wrong with kids these days that they are so disrespectful and the really bad thing is if she is slapping grown ups at four what will she be doing at 14?