to me, the feeling that you had to forgive God is normal - after all, He is a parent. if you were a child, & this happened, you'd blame your parent [to some extent] for not being able to prevent/stop it. not logical, not reasonable - but totally understandable from an emotional viewpoint.
i actually think it's harder, because we know, rationally, that our human parents are just that - human. we know, intellectually, that they simply cannot prevent or stop the evil things from happening to us. it's harder with God, because He is capable of doing such a thing, and sometimes does - but, because "Now we see things imperfectly as in a cloudy mirror, "; we can't see why He makes the choices He does.
not to compare to your situation, but i've wrestled with this concept since july 2009. i chose to resign my teaching position because i felt convicted that God wanted me elsewhere. i got no calls for interviews last summer - i had only applied to districts w/in a commuting distance.
this year, i applied EVERYWHERE - all over Texas, Oklahoma, Louisiana - because i simply couldn't afford another year w/o a job [& neither could my parents!]. thus, i ended up moving, after 11 years, to a new place.
i hated moving, hated even more having to rehome/foster 3 of the cats
- but all indications are that this job will be a VAST improvement over my last. so God knew what He was doing, even tho i couldn't see why.
i'll continue for you, because i think that the act of forgiveness & your justifiable anger are both strong indicators that you have begun the healing process.
i actually think it's harder, because we know, rationally, that our human parents are just that - human. we know, intellectually, that they simply cannot prevent or stop the evil things from happening to us. it's harder with God, because He is capable of doing such a thing, and sometimes does - but, because "Now we see things imperfectly as in a cloudy mirror, "; we can't see why He makes the choices He does.
not to compare to your situation, but i've wrestled with this concept since july 2009. i chose to resign my teaching position because i felt convicted that God wanted me elsewhere. i got no calls for interviews last summer - i had only applied to districts w/in a commuting distance.
this year, i applied EVERYWHERE - all over Texas, Oklahoma, Louisiana - because i simply couldn't afford another year w/o a job [& neither could my parents!]. thus, i ended up moving, after 11 years, to a new place.
i hated moving, hated even more having to rehome/foster 3 of the cats
i'll continue for you, because i think that the act of forgiveness & your justifiable anger are both strong indicators that you have begun the healing process.