i think my cat charli hates me! either that or she just uses me for food!! she is unaffectionate to me, and just goes off in the house by herself, whereas her brother likes to stay close to me most of the ttime( or in the same room at least). she always wants to go outside(i've made a post about her always wanting to go out previously).
and its not that shes an unaffectionate cat, because i've seen her be affectionate to other people! when i try to pet her she will try and slouch down so i can't pet her and then she'll run off. she hates being picked up, and at night she sleeps at the very corner of the bed as far away from me as possible!
i don't know whats wrong with her, it seems the more i try to pay her attention the more she trys to get away from me! its very frustrating!!its like trying to give love, but not getting any back!
i don't knnow for sure if this would have anything to do with it but, when she was a kitten she had ear mites and i had to put drops in her ears to fix it - she hated it!, siince then she seemed to like my flatmates more and would hide and sleep in their room when i was around. which is why i ended up getting another cat, cause charli didn't seem to like me and i wanted a cat that was affectionate(thank god mickey is!).
well i'm coming to my wits end with her "attitude problem" and i've resorted to ignoring her as whenever i try to pay her attention she just runs off. is this the right thing to do? or is there anotehr way i should go about this? does anyone else have a cat that treats them like this????
and its not that shes an unaffectionate cat, because i've seen her be affectionate to other people! when i try to pet her she will try and slouch down so i can't pet her and then she'll run off. she hates being picked up, and at night she sleeps at the very corner of the bed as far away from me as possible!
i don't know whats wrong with her, it seems the more i try to pay her attention the more she trys to get away from me! its very frustrating!!its like trying to give love, but not getting any back!
i don't knnow for sure if this would have anything to do with it but, when she was a kitten she had ear mites and i had to put drops in her ears to fix it - she hated it!, siince then she seemed to like my flatmates more and would hide and sleep in their room when i was around. which is why i ended up getting another cat, cause charli didn't seem to like me and i wanted a cat that was affectionate(thank god mickey is!).
well i'm coming to my wits end with her "attitude problem" and i've resorted to ignoring her as whenever i try to pay her attention she just runs off. is this the right thing to do? or is there anotehr way i should go about this? does anyone else have a cat that treats them like this????