It looks as though you've had some good advice from folks who have used counselling themselves and are very familiar with it.
The very best advice I can give you is that you and hubby either need to open your lines of communication with each other and if you cannot do that by yourselves, you honestly should see a licensed counsellor. Us lay people are too prone to allowing our own personal feelings to colour our advice. Licensed counsellors are trained to be objective and if you feel and want your marriage to survive, I'd seriously suggest you talk to hubby and get him to agree to go with you for some help. Often the individual little nit picky daily problems have a deeper underlying problem and it's best to get it identified early.
The very best advice I can give you is that you and hubby either need to open your lines of communication with each other and if you cannot do that by yourselves, you honestly should see a licensed counsellor. Us lay people are too prone to allowing our own personal feelings to colour our advice. Licensed counsellors are trained to be objective and if you feel and want your marriage to survive, I'd seriously suggest you talk to hubby and get him to agree to go with you for some help. Often the individual little nit picky daily problems have a deeper underlying problem and it's best to get it identified early.
