I started talking to this guy and thought he sounded nice and then I went to his house and they are disgusting people his sister's partner called me ugly names because I am not a lesbian like them. And I believe its upto you what you do with your life. I watched his sister change a diaper and pick up dog poop with her barehands and not wash her hands. He has a son he ignores and I found out that his wife died in the summer and he took a date to her funeral, this was told to me the day I went to his house that has three bedrooms and a kitchen and a bathroom. They have 5 dogs inside and three cats and none of which has been properly housebroken. And three kids there the social services is in and out. While I was there that day he hit his dog and cat with a paddle, needless to say I got out of there. Why do I keep meeting morons? Another question what makes you live like that.