growing up i had one cat. i grew up with her, and she passed away 4 years ago at 21. she was THE BEST cat. honestly, idk how i'd survive my childhood and teenagedom with her. she was loving, sweet, smart, furry, AFFECTIONATE!, and its like she knew when i was goin thru a tough time. i still miss her, ive had 4 other pets but losing her was the *worst* since she was truly my best friend
so around 2 years ago, my friend's, friend's cat had kittens and she was giving them away for free. free kittens?! couldn't pass that up. along came orlando. he was a month when i got him. he was pretty cool in the beginning, i was scared he'd hide from me or try to attack me but it seem like him being taken away from his mom and siblings didn't effect him at all. i got him fixed a few months later bc he was super annoying (humping & spraying everywhere) so i thought it'd mellow him out.
a year old, he peed EVERYWHERE. even after getting fixed! it was a nightmare. his litterbox remained spotless, and as a kitten he would instinctively use it but idk what happened. i took him to a vet to get him checked out and he was perfectly fine. he finally stopped when i let him be free and walk out the house. now he's pretty much a stray cat whenever he feels like it.
now he's two, and he's picked up horrible habits. he's always hungry. always. he chases me around the house, meowing at me for more food. he stands on tables, counters, w/e just to get my attention. one time i was walking around my house, he was chasing me and meowing as he usually does and i accidentally stepped on his tail and he meowed super loud. this scared me so much i fell and hurt my ankle. i was limping for a week. i came home one day, he knocked over the cat food and was eating it. he's also ripped up garbage bags and made a huge mess just to get food outside. IDK why. i feed him twice a day at the same time everyday but for some reason he acts like he's on survivor and he's gonna starve to death. he's pretty fat btw. he ended up getting diarrhea and i had to take him to the vet again. my first cat never acted like this, i didn't even know cats acted like this.
the worse thing is, he's not even affectionate. he genuinely does not enjoy any sort of petting or rubbing. he's never slept in my bed. never hear him pur. i feel so used. he just wants my food and that's it. if i wanted someone to eat all my food i'd just invite my uncle to live with me.
i've contemplated so many times just to give him up or return him to the girl i got him from, but even she gave away her cats. i don't wanna give him up because i'll feel horrible, in my life ive owned 4 dogs and a cat and i couldnt imagine giving them away. but this cat has added so much unnecessary stress to my life he's only 2. idk what to do. any advice? sorry this is so long, i needed to vent.
so around 2 years ago, my friend's, friend's cat had kittens and she was giving them away for free. free kittens?! couldn't pass that up. along came orlando. he was a month when i got him. he was pretty cool in the beginning, i was scared he'd hide from me or try to attack me but it seem like him being taken away from his mom and siblings didn't effect him at all. i got him fixed a few months later bc he was super annoying (humping & spraying everywhere) so i thought it'd mellow him out.
a year old, he peed EVERYWHERE. even after getting fixed! it was a nightmare. his litterbox remained spotless, and as a kitten he would instinctively use it but idk what happened. i took him to a vet to get him checked out and he was perfectly fine. he finally stopped when i let him be free and walk out the house. now he's pretty much a stray cat whenever he feels like it.
now he's two, and he's picked up horrible habits. he's always hungry. always. he chases me around the house, meowing at me for more food. he stands on tables, counters, w/e just to get my attention. one time i was walking around my house, he was chasing me and meowing as he usually does and i accidentally stepped on his tail and he meowed super loud. this scared me so much i fell and hurt my ankle. i was limping for a week. i came home one day, he knocked over the cat food and was eating it. he's also ripped up garbage bags and made a huge mess just to get food outside. IDK why. i feed him twice a day at the same time everyday but for some reason he acts like he's on survivor and he's gonna starve to death. he's pretty fat btw. he ended up getting diarrhea and i had to take him to the vet again. my first cat never acted like this, i didn't even know cats acted like this.
the worse thing is, he's not even affectionate. he genuinely does not enjoy any sort of petting or rubbing. he's never slept in my bed. never hear him pur. i feel so used. he just wants my food and that's it. if i wanted someone to eat all my food i'd just invite my uncle to live with me.
i've contemplated so many times just to give him up or return him to the girl i got him from, but even she gave away her cats. i don't wanna give him up because i'll feel horrible, in my life ive owned 4 dogs and a cat and i couldnt imagine giving them away. but this cat has added so much unnecessary stress to my life he's only 2. idk what to do. any advice? sorry this is so long, i needed to vent.