ok I know you all must be sick of hearing about this by now so I'll just update this last time. I recieved a second letter from my 'father' and recognized a lot of my mothers alcoholism in it. In fact, he sounds drunk writing it ~ a lot of cliche`s and sayings and pointing out the obvious. I hate that! Especially in writing! it's so ... MOM'ish! (LOL) And he's obviously going to play the victim in all of what happened, so I'm not going to ask him anymore. I know my mom is rude and manipulative and all the rest of it, but he couldn't have totally been the victim. right? They were both young and drunk and in a tough situation. so, whatever. *sigh* I can hear my mom in the back of my head screaming negativities (a result of growing up with a negative drunk) it's something that I thought was normal until a few years ago and I'm finding it hard to be rid of.
Any thoughts?? Thanks.
Any thoughts?? Thanks.