i cant think of a good enough title for thi as im not asking for vibes as i guess the end is near i guess im asking for hugs and support more than anything
well as some are aware my grandparents had a car crash a couple of months back and thank the lord were not hurt but my grandad was suffering from cancer of the rib well there was a shadow on a rib which they had started treating and may add successfully but there has been something about the accident that has kick started everything and there is no chance he can fight this. It has spread from his rib to his lung which has then spread to his brain and the tumor is quickly taking over, my nana is having to get him dressed and make sure he is ok in the shower and it taking its toll on her.
im scared to go see him because i dont want to see him sick. Over the years ive atched him go from being a firefighter coal shoveller on the steam Locos to a man that is about 8stone wet through that has lost his mind not sure who we are, and thats what is hardest about it not the diesease that is eating im away the fact he cant remember his family or what we do for him or is that the saving grace throughout this because i would hate to think he felt embarrased, i just hope he doesnt know and as awful as it sounds he goes as quick and oainless as possible because i dont want such a wonderfull man to suffer
well as some are aware my grandparents had a car crash a couple of months back and thank the lord were not hurt but my grandad was suffering from cancer of the rib well there was a shadow on a rib which they had started treating and may add successfully but there has been something about the accident that has kick started everything and there is no chance he can fight this. It has spread from his rib to his lung which has then spread to his brain and the tumor is quickly taking over, my nana is having to get him dressed and make sure he is ok in the shower and it taking its toll on her.
im scared to go see him because i dont want to see him sick. Over the years ive atched him go from being a firefighter coal shoveller on the steam Locos to a man that is about 8stone wet through that has lost his mind not sure who we are, and thats what is hardest about it not the diesease that is eating im away the fact he cant remember his family or what we do for him or is that the saving grace throughout this because i would hate to think he felt embarrased, i just hope he doesnt know and as awful as it sounds he goes as quick and oainless as possible because i dont want such a wonderfull man to suffer