I agree with everyone else on here. Good on you for coming onto a cat site and talking about your problem. Everyone is incredibly kind and supportive here, and we understand your dilemma.
It sounds as though you're suffering from depression, and there's a lot of people here who have had similar problems and can help talk to you if that would help.
I agree that you should seek a doctor's advice and talk to them. You definitely need to look after yourself at the moment, and it sounds as though a special needs kitty isn't right for you at the moment.
I applaud you for trying to take on a special needs kitty, not many people would be willing to even consider taking a FIV kitty, and it shows you have a big heart.
Nobody here would condemn you for returning the kitty since it's in the best interest for both of you.
It sounds as though you're suffering from depression, and there's a lot of people here who have had similar problems and can help talk to you if that would help.
I agree that you should seek a doctor's advice and talk to them. You definitely need to look after yourself at the moment, and it sounds as though a special needs kitty isn't right for you at the moment.
I applaud you for trying to take on a special needs kitty, not many people would be willing to even consider taking a FIV kitty, and it shows you have a big heart.
Nobody here would condemn you for returning the kitty since it's in the best interest for both of you.