I just found out that my ex-b.f. of two years, whom I broke up with not even two months ago, is "dating" someone else.
Now first of all, I realize that I'm the one who broke up with him. It wasn't an easy decision. And second, I know it's his life and I can't control it.
The thing that bothers me the most is he has seemed so upset and heartbroken this whole time, and I've been treating our post-breakup friendship with kid gloves, because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. But he's been seeing this girl for almost a month now. This entire time I've been feeling terrible that I hurt him, and always wanted to make sure he was ok. Apparently he's more than ok.
And by "dating" someone else, I mean "friends with benefits". Many benefits, if you get my drift.
Is this just the way that guys choose to move on? Might I mention she looks kind of like me...
I know I shouldn't but I feel absolutely horrible. Our mutual friends knew about this for weeks and no one said anything. I only found out because he's my flickr contact and when I went to upload some pictures their photo was just staring right at me. There's a whole set of them hiking and hugging, her burying her head into his neck, blah blah. I got details when I asked my friend.
I feel like such a fool.
Now first of all, I realize that I'm the one who broke up with him. It wasn't an easy decision. And second, I know it's his life and I can't control it.
The thing that bothers me the most is he has seemed so upset and heartbroken this whole time, and I've been treating our post-breakup friendship with kid gloves, because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. But he's been seeing this girl for almost a month now. This entire time I've been feeling terrible that I hurt him, and always wanted to make sure he was ok. Apparently he's more than ok.
And by "dating" someone else, I mean "friends with benefits". Many benefits, if you get my drift.
Is this just the way that guys choose to move on? Might I mention she looks kind of like me...
I know I shouldn't but I feel absolutely horrible. Our mutual friends knew about this for weeks and no one said anything. I only found out because he's my flickr contact and when I went to upload some pictures their photo was just staring right at me. There's a whole set of them hiking and hugging, her burying her head into his neck, blah blah. I got details when I asked my friend.
I feel like such a fool.