My hubby is at his wits end with Sugarly. He is treatening to put her down (and he means it). He says he is giving her 1 last chance. She has been acting out again (peeing and pooping on beds, etc). We had to buy a new mattress the other day. This is now a weekly occurance. We brought her back to the vet, and he says that there is nothing more he can do...he has ruled out anything physical. It is purely behavioural. Her meds have been increased. The boxes have been increased. She has been in so many time outs we don't think they work anymore (time out is in a room by herself where she has 2 boxes, toys and alot of attention.). Because of her, we can't go out and leave her with someone - it stresses us out. It stresses the other cats out. Nothing we do is working! I am trying to find her a home with no other pets and no children, but that won't necessarily stop her problem, them we will feel responsible for any damage she does to anyone else's stuff. I just don't know what to do. Any ideas?