God comforting others doesn’t make me sad ..... missing Dante every day does!!!
Last night for the first time Jackie laid on my lap like Dante used to all the time & oh god I almost started crying! (Usually Jackie just lays on my chest or belly.) The sensation of having that (lighter) familiar weight on my lap was to much.
After a tear or two I took a picture of him just because he was so cute! Maybe Dante knew how much I missed him & asked Jackie to snuggle me for him. It brings me comfort to know I will be reunited with him when I die.
I don't think any of us want to come to this site. I wish none of us ever had to. But it is so important to just have your loss and your pain acknowledged and to know you are not alone. To have someone respond to your anguish is comfort in itself. I cannot tell you enough how much it meant to me when my own world had ended......