It's probably more than just the money. Your sister obviously wants to have power over your life. You are a shining example of how a person in adverse circumstances (divorce) can thrive and overcome (nurse's assistant). You are an example of everything she is not and she wants to have control over you so that she can feel she is better than you. Such family members are not worth their weight in cat $#!+ and should be regarded as such.
Be strong and confident. Be careful also, and watch your back. The attacks are likely to continue behind your back. I suggest you divert her by drawing attention to her shortcomings. Perhaps you're concerned about her impending drug relapse or have reason to believe that her employment status is in question because she's such a slacker and doesn't have much experience in the working world. It sounds mean to do this, but mean, hurtful and aggressive people (in my all too extensive experience) only understand attack and defense. Time to put her on the defensive for your own safety.
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Be strong and confident. Be careful also, and watch your back. The attacks are likely to continue behind your back. I suggest you divert her by drawing attention to her shortcomings. Perhaps you're concerned about her impending drug relapse or have reason to believe that her employment status is in question because she's such a slacker and doesn't have much experience in the working world. It sounds mean to do this, but mean, hurtful and aggressive people (in my all too extensive experience) only understand attack and defense. Time to put her on the defensive for your own safety.
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