I just got a message from my G/F that I am no longer welcome in her mother's home.
My g/f, her daughter Katie and I were supposed to drive to her mother's
church this morning for a Mother's Day luncheon where the men do all the
cooking, cleaning and serving (I had volunteered to be a waiter) then we
had planned to spend the day at Callaway Gardens and then back to the
G/F's mom's house for dinner. My G/F called me at 8am to tell me I have
been dis-invited from today's events.
Apparently, I am being blamed for 'destroying' Mrs. E's computer, which
I used (with permission) for less than 5 minutes, nearly a month ago.
Supposedly, I have somehow infected her computer with some virus by
simply doing a Mapquest search for a tire store so I could get a slow-leak
in one of my g/f tires fixed.
The funny thing is, the day I used her computer, she was actually pleasant
to me; Katie told her grandmother that she had brought her grade in algebra
up from a D (which was actually a border-line 'F', but the teacher was being
generous) to a B-Plus because I had been helping her study. (I haz mad math
skilz, yo.
) I thought Mrs E. might actually be warming up to me - my
G/F even mentioned it on the drive home that night.
I have always treated this women with respect, I've shrugged off her snide
comments, left handed compliments and outright animosity towards me with
as much civility as I can muster (which actually probably annoys her even
further) because it is important to my G/F that her mother and I are at least
cordial to each other - but this is just outright ridiculous. At what point do
I say 'enough is enough' and how do I do that without jeopardizing my
relationship?
Not really looking for advise here, just needed to rant.
My g/f, her daughter Katie and I were supposed to drive to her mother's
church this morning for a Mother's Day luncheon where the men do all the
cooking, cleaning and serving (I had volunteered to be a waiter) then we
had planned to spend the day at Callaway Gardens and then back to the
G/F's mom's house for dinner. My G/F called me at 8am to tell me I have
been dis-invited from today's events.
Apparently, I am being blamed for 'destroying' Mrs. E's computer, which
I used (with permission) for less than 5 minutes, nearly a month ago.
Supposedly, I have somehow infected her computer with some virus by
simply doing a Mapquest search for a tire store so I could get a slow-leak
in one of my g/f tires fixed.
The funny thing is, the day I used her computer, she was actually pleasant
to me; Katie told her grandmother that she had brought her grade in algebra
up from a D (which was actually a border-line 'F', but the teacher was being
generous) to a B-Plus because I had been helping her study. (I haz mad math
skilz, yo.
G/F even mentioned it on the drive home that night.
I have always treated this women with respect, I've shrugged off her snide
comments, left handed compliments and outright animosity towards me with
as much civility as I can muster (which actually probably annoys her even
further) because it is important to my G/F that her mother and I are at least
cordial to each other - but this is just outright ridiculous. At what point do
I say 'enough is enough' and how do I do that without jeopardizing my
relationship?
Not really looking for advise here, just needed to rant.