oops...Chloe has always been a clingy cat, which is ok. When my male cat died unexpectedly (cancer) I was so depressed, and worried about Chloe being lonely that I gave her extra treats, extra food and extra attention. Whenever I came home she ran to greet me and tried to climb my legs. Instead of discouraging this i picked her up and sat down to cuddle with her for a while. Now, I'm afraid she's terrible spoiled. I may end up with someone else's male cat (thankfully a submissive cat) but I'm worried that it won't work. On the other hand, maybe another cat is exactly what Chloe needs. Can she be "unspoiled"?