Bug hugs needed here - me and DH have cried ourselves silly over my darling Paddy boy - I am still shocked, but at least I have hubby and friends to talk though with.
The old guy - Melchett, has never been a social animal, and remembers the days pre kittens, when he owned us and the house, and all was peaceful!
Ben is sweet and friendly, but not madly keen on other cat company - he is getting on with life as always.
I am bother about out little Max though - Paddy was his brother, best friend and sparring partner - they were always in trouble together, Maxy came out with me trawling through the streets last night looking for Paddy, and I had to take him home and shut him away before resuming my search.
He has spent the majority of today trotting from corner to corner mewing - looking for his brother and I feel like my heart might break.
Send Max your hugs............he is finding it hard - I think we will all be spending the night snuggled up together in the big bed
Max (left-) and RB Paddy (right)
When does this start getting easier!?!?!?
The old guy - Melchett, has never been a social animal, and remembers the days pre kittens, when he owned us and the house, and all was peaceful!
Ben is sweet and friendly, but not madly keen on other cat company - he is getting on with life as always.
I am bother about out little Max though - Paddy was his brother, best friend and sparring partner - they were always in trouble together, Maxy came out with me trawling through the streets last night looking for Paddy, and I had to take him home and shut him away before resuming my search.
He has spent the majority of today trotting from corner to corner mewing - looking for his brother and I feel like my heart might break.
Send Max your hugs............he is finding it hard - I think we will all be spending the night snuggled up together in the big bed
Max (left-) and RB Paddy (right)
When does this start getting easier!?!?!?