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Ok, so we recently had our inlaws stay at our house for about 2 years, they loved our cat and spoilt her rotten. They have since gone but have left our cat thinking that meowing will get her whatever she wants.
While I am pretty strict with my pets and am always the 'leader', she has picked up this VERY annoying habit and I cant seem to break it.
It has gotten to the point where she will wake me up several times a night meowing for food or to be let out etc. She will meow at me when im getting ready in the bathroom, or watching TV or making dinner. This never happened before the inlaws came to stay and I knew her cues for food/toilet really well without her having to carry on.
So I figured I would train her like I do dogs, find what she really loves and wait for the behaviour that I want and then give it to her. In her case she LOVES to be brushed. So I will sit down with her several times a day in different locations around the house and go to brush her, if she meows I respond with a no and take the brush away, if she is quiet I will brush her. This seems to work, but only when I brush her, she still meows for attention everywhere else and the word no seems to mean nothing to her.
I never give her any attention when she is meowing at me and at night when she jumps up on the bed and meows I will push her off. But shes just not getting it.
She is quite a stressy cat and can tell when I get frustrated with her. She used to urinate on my clothes and in my cupboard a lot but she hasnt done this in a long time. I dont want to stress her out to the point where she will start this again.
I am in desperate need of help, my sleep is quite precious to me and I cant go on like this much longer!
I hope someone has some suggestions on how I can help her get the picture that meowing wont get her what she wants.
While I am pretty strict with my pets and am always the 'leader', she has picked up this VERY annoying habit and I cant seem to break it.
It has gotten to the point where she will wake me up several times a night meowing for food or to be let out etc. She will meow at me when im getting ready in the bathroom, or watching TV or making dinner. This never happened before the inlaws came to stay and I knew her cues for food/toilet really well without her having to carry on.
So I figured I would train her like I do dogs, find what she really loves and wait for the behaviour that I want and then give it to her. In her case she LOVES to be brushed. So I will sit down with her several times a day in different locations around the house and go to brush her, if she meows I respond with a no and take the brush away, if she is quiet I will brush her. This seems to work, but only when I brush her, she still meows for attention everywhere else and the word no seems to mean nothing to her.
I never give her any attention when she is meowing at me and at night when she jumps up on the bed and meows I will push her off. But shes just not getting it.
She is quite a stressy cat and can tell when I get frustrated with her. She used to urinate on my clothes and in my cupboard a lot but she hasnt done this in a long time. I dont want to stress her out to the point where she will start this again.
I am in desperate need of help, my sleep is quite precious to me and I cant go on like this much longer!
I hope someone has some suggestions on how I can help her get the picture that meowing wont get her what she wants.