Hi there.
I was hoping I could get some insight on bonding. I adopted an 8-year-old ginger cat, Skimble, from the local humane society yesterday and he's been home around 24 hours. I kept him in my room for the first evening and night as I read you were supposed to do to help him acclimate. He showed interest in exploring the rest of my apartment right away, so I let him have the whole place this morning. I realize that it's super early to have established a solid relationship, but I'm afraid he's not going to bond with me. I got him to be an emotional support animal to help with my anxiety and depression, so I really need him to be affectionate with me. He loves being pet and playing, but hasn't shown interest in cuddling or lap sitting, except for on my roommate's lap, which is what concerns me I guess. I'm afraid he likes her more than me, even though I'm the one that feeds him and cleans the litter box. I realize it's very early in our relationship, but my experience so far has been a little disheartening. I love him and I want him to love me back. Any advice or words of wisdom you could offer would be greatly appreciated.
I was hoping I could get some insight on bonding. I adopted an 8-year-old ginger cat, Skimble, from the local humane society yesterday and he's been home around 24 hours. I kept him in my room for the first evening and night as I read you were supposed to do to help him acclimate. He showed interest in exploring the rest of my apartment right away, so I let him have the whole place this morning. I realize that it's super early to have established a solid relationship, but I'm afraid he's not going to bond with me. I got him to be an emotional support animal to help with my anxiety and depression, so I really need him to be affectionate with me. He loves being pet and playing, but hasn't shown interest in cuddling or lap sitting, except for on my roommate's lap, which is what concerns me I guess. I'm afraid he likes her more than me, even though I'm the one that feeds him and cleans the litter box. I realize it's very early in our relationship, but my experience so far has been a little disheartening. I love him and I want him to love me back. Any advice or words of wisdom you could offer would be greatly appreciated.