it's been 3 years now and i play with them, feed them good food, furminate them - which they love - massage them, pet them, talk to them, supplied them with a good flowing fountain. i have toys like da Bird, mousies, cat dancer, fishing rods etc. i was just wondering because they've never been as affectionate as when i had kittens. on the other hand, they're very good, don't scratch me or the furniture, use the litter & wait for me outside the bedroom door each morning. i only give them 'treats' occasionally, say once a month or...after i do something like clip their nails. they are also in perfect health. when will they be more affectionate? or should i just love them the way they are and stop hoping?