Ahhhh Diazepam.... Good old Valium... No folks, I am not an addict, but boy, did it made me feel better when I went through my divorceOriginally Posted by Ruthyb
Hugs hun, I am so sorry that you are going through this when you have given up so much and changed so much already. It does sound like you had a panic attack, I had a really bad one on the day my hubbys nana passed and I tel you I really thought I was going to die, it was the most awful experience ever. I went to my docs and he gave me some diazepam to take when I felt like I was going to have one. Touch wood, I have not had one since, I think its just your bodys way of coping with certain stresses. I hope you can get to a doctor hun. . xx
I thought she had said in another thread, she started to drink again. Maybe that has something to do with how shes feeling?Originally Posted by Kiwideus
Have you given up the alcohol? If so, it could be the withdrawal making you feel like this...I think you should go and see a doctor to help you with the withdrawal and to discuss treatment options.
Excellent post, and I thoroughly agree. Nobody here can help you with your problems. You need to help yourself. There have been resources posted for you to get help, now you need to take the next step and do something about it. What have you got to lose?Originally Posted by CatMom2Wires
The "I can't afford a doctor" excuse can only go so far. Very few people are "lucky enough" to use that and then indeed, one day just "fade away." Oh no, ignoring health issues seem to chip away at a person and can slowly disable you. Untreated high blood pressure has a way of causing strokes, which leave you with varying levels of disability. Believe me, having a stroke is not something you want to experience, as even a "small one" has far reaching effects.
Every town has free or low cost services for health/mental health issues. Seriously, it sounds to me that you probably just need a blood pressure medicine. Jumping to the conclusion that a heart transplant is needed is a HUGE leap....and is just the anxiety eating at you.
I encourage you to avail yourself of the services that you can find. In my opinion, you could benefit from several services in both the physical and emotional areas and only you are preventing you from feeling relief at this point.
I wish you well.
Cally
Now I am confused - at the start of this thread she said she wasn't drinking.Originally Posted by Pami
I thought she had said in another thread, she started to drink again. Maybe that has something to do with how shes feeling?
Originally Posted by Kiwideus
Have you given up the alcohol? If so, it could be the withdrawal making you feel like this...I think you should go and see a doctor to help you with the withdrawal and to discuss treatment options.
Originally Posted by Pami
I thought she had said in another thread, she started to drink again. Maybe that has something to do with how shes feeling?
I had forgotton about that thread until Pam mentioned it. This is the one she's refering to http://www.thecatsite.com/forums/sho...d.php?t=209116 . Things make a bit more sense now!!Originally Posted by Kiwideus
Now I am confused - at the start of this thread she said she wasn't drinking.
If you DON'T go, you'll be even more frightened at what could happen to you if you get no help, and I mean that in a caring, not facetious, way. I remember when I was terrified to find out whether I had diabetes or not, about 13 years ago. I had myself in a tizzy--couldn't sleep, anxiety, etc. I didn't want to answer the phone when I was expecting the phone call telling the test results. You know what? Finding out I was pre-diabetic was the best thing that ever happened to me. I lost 80lbs, starting eating better, and felt 100% better. You have to face the problem--and I know it's easy for me to tell you that--but you need help. You CAN get help. If it's alcoholism (I'm assuming this from some other posts), you CAN be helped (though you really have to help yourself from inside first). I've know a few alcoholics who turned their lives around successfully--it wasn't easy, but they did it. You can too. It's gonna be a hard ride; but you can do it. You have us, too. Please go to the doctor very soon? Please???Originally Posted by Trillcat
But I am so frightened of what they will tell me!
Back to freak out mode.
Originally Posted by MargeCat
If you DON'T go, you'll be even more frightened at what could happen to you if you get no help, and I mean that in a caring, not facetious, way.