How did you know the time was right!??

catlessgoatman

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I knew I loved Amber after about 2 weeks. I wasnt going to tell her though because she made it clear she didnt want to rush anything. About 8 weeks in the relationship I let it slip on accident. I think it shocked me more then it shocked her. She didnt tell me she loved me until we had the car wreck and I was in the hospital.
 

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It kinda just slipped out when Colin and I were having an argument and talking about ending it. I didn't even realize I had felt that way until I said it- then we were both like "wow" we really love each other- we made up immediately and well..it's worked out
/ You just know when it's right
 
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renny

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Thanks everyone! I knew i could count on you all for wonderful words of advice. I know how I feel...and i'll just have to take that leap one day soon. Maybe when things calm down and we have a little more alone time. I just don't want to scare him away...and I think I could almost accept him not saying it back right away....but i don't know if I could go on indefinitely if he didn't feel the same way back.
 

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Well you are going to feel how you feel whether you say it or not, so I say go for it whenever you get that urge to say it!

If he doesn't feel the same way, it is going to surface eventually regardless of who says what.
 
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