I had a hyper energetic kitten, unfortunately she passed away. Now I'm so use to playing with a high energy Kitten. I have a second cat (5 year old) but she is so mellow . I tried using the fish pole toy but she just lays there and watches me swing it, or he just to lazy to be active. She'll play for a few minutes and lose interest on the toy. I got so use to the kitten's high energy for playing, that I find myself bored. I know my older cat is a lap cat but how can get her to be more playful?