He doesn't get violent when he drinks or anything bad like that. He just realizes that he's at a point in his life where its not important. Its more of a habit now, more than anything. I just think that after he blacked out, he realized that he is ready to stop. He doesn't like the feeling at all, and either do I, because I felt so helpless, like I couldn't do anything to make it better. But now, we're in this together, for the long haul
That is wonderful! I can't say how proud I am to hear that he has realized there could be a problem in the future and doesn't want it to happen and ruin what you 2 have!
You have tons of keep it up and you can do it vibes from me to John and you!
Mackenzie.....I just found this thread. Wow! That is great news. I think it's very positive that he made the decision on his own to want to quit. I hope things go smoothly for both you & John. Good luck!